I'm afraid of marriage counseling?

Ive been married for 4 yrs. we are having problems with my husband having being over friendly with other female.He is saying is just part of his job,but even outside of his job i see him looking at other women in front of me & he tries to hide it if i catch him. recently i saw my husband asking a women for advice abt anniv, i dont like him aking personal que to other women. I dont need any help from male on how to please my husband or what to buy him. so i decided we go for counseling & he agreed. when we discuss abt going to counseling my husband asks me ques & then when i give him answ he tells me look ur answ is crazy, im goin to tell this to marri counselor & see what he/she says.que was, would u let me talk to a young, beautiful psy alone in her ofc, would you trust me.I told him dont ask me stupid ques like that.Im afraid he is going to make me look bad & crazy. I dont know if marriage counseling is a good idea. please help me & tell me if i should go for this or not. thank you.